I see it’s been a while since this topic was discussed, but I’m curious—how do you usually establish clear expectations and boundaries in a setup like this? I’ve noticed that communication styles can vary a lot, especially when discussing limits and roles. Do you prefer a formal contract, or do you keep it more verbal and flexible?
There are better places to find what you're looking for. You might have more luck on an adult dating website where people specifically look for this kind of dynamic. This forum isn’t really set up for that, and most users here probably aren’t into it. If you're serious, try connecting with people in spaces designed for it, instead of posting in general threads where most replies won’t be what you’re hoping for.
